People come in different shapes and sizes as they come in different personalities. Nowadays, we are bombarded about how people have different personalities and these can actually affect relationships with people.
When starting dating someone new, of course you do not want to put that person in a box, but you need to actually have an idea for why that person behaves in a certain way.
Dating an introvert is part of these situations.
Here are some tips on dating such a person:
Don’t force yourself onto this person
When dating an introvert do not get very clingy. The introvert is not that easy to crack but it can be done. If a person doesn’t have the same personality as you, it doesn’t mean that is ok for you to force yourself onto him or her. They can decide on their own if they want to be with you or not. Do not start getting clingy. If they do not want to hang out with you as much as you do, do not force the situation.
Do not insist for this person to socialize
People who are starting to date an introvert must understand that these people are not actually very sociable by nature. They will never be the happy go lucky type and also available to meeting new people. An introvert likes to spend a lot of time alone and not in the company of others. This is something that the partner needs to understand and never insist on doing something that the other doesn’t feel comfortable with.
Take on activities that the introvert might like
Introverts might not like to go out to party or be part of different events that take a lot of socializing. This means that they will never be opened to the idea of going to a party and drink and play games with everyone. They might like to just go for a walk in the park without being disturbed by anyone or go to the movies. These sorts of activities are the best things to take into consideration when dating such a person.
Do not get into rough conflicts
Introverts tend to close themselves up when getting into conflicts with their partners. That is because they do not know for sure how to react in such situations. Being the quite type they might not know how to handle them and they react by just getting quiet.
Keep in mind they do not make the first move
Introverts do not make the first move, ever. They are the quiet type and they might also be shy as well. That is why you can never expect for them to actually ask you out. You might end up waiting until the end of your life. They are not the impromptu kind of people and they are always discreet in the choices that they make. They do not like to become the center of attention and do not know how to actually react in upfront ones.